I have been on this website for many years and yet to have found a sane partner to administer the proper discipline that I need, deserve and require. I just want a sane Male that is kind, thoughtful, sane and is able to help me create the balance in my life that I am looking for. Why is that so hard? I’m not looking for extreme pain nor abuse of any kind. Are my wants or needs of fantasy? Are they outlandish? Please advise. Any feedback would be great. Tell me where do I seek a good adviser or please guide me.
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So, I'm a newish member of Spankingtube, I made an account just over two weeks go and only just decided to put myself out there and get talking to people. I'm 18 years old, so pretty young I guess, and I've never actually been spanked. Growing up, the only discipline I ever received was getting shouted at.
I'm a believer that girls should be spanked for their wrong-doings, quite traditional I suppose, and I have tried to find people to spank me but I have never succeeded. I'm not open about what I want and I'm embarrassed by it and so I've never spoken about it to anyone - it's a secret that I wish I could embrace.
I think it's quite hard to have this kind of desire whilst still living with your parents, like I do. I can't drive yet (I live in the UK and have yet to pass my drivers test)and so my freedom to meet people is very restricted - also I'm so paranoid about online safety and stranger danger.
I'm not entirely sure what my point to this is and I've probably just wasted your time, but I guess if anyone is having a similar struggle to me then let me know. Maybe we can figure this out together.
Some of my blogs were harsh and pretty in called for I'll admit it. I got several messages over them. I have a major problem with running my mouth when I don't need to run it. Happens alot ... I also have problems with holding my actual feelings inside. That's all. My bad and I'm sorry.
So I asked yesterday if I should be punished a few gave me a answer .. and I thank you for that.. yes I have messed up alot lately. But it was not done on purpose so I shouldn't be punished that badly what u think? My Sir reads my blogs daily. So he see all u will say be nice people.... Lol don't give him any ideas
Well my niece and I went head to head over the protest she and her friends had planned by not paying the 50 euro fines they were issued by the university so last Monday my niece and I sat in my car arguing on the drive to the city. She sited the many times I behaved as a rebel at university,this is true ,but times were different then;these days there is so much pressure on young people to perform and get as many qualifications as possible,those who do not perform very often get pushed aside. When I was at university I did mess around with some close friends, in particular my best friend,Amy ,but we always knuckled down when it came to exam time,my niece and her friends always seem to be attending one party or another,however my niece's boyfriend is quite the opposite to my niece,he works hard at university and on my farm as well as on Jenny's Dad's farm,he likes his rock music and he and a few lads have a rock band and they are quite good,they play at least one gig every weekend;he tends to be more work orientated than my niece,but I guess they balance each other out.
I parked my car in the University parking area and my niece got out and slammed the door shut,I took a deep breath,I threw a few tantrums when I was young,but when I look at my niece I cannot help but think that when I was her age I had just become a novice with the Sisters of Mercy,was I understanding her?,I know I threw away my 20's and 30's in the convent so was I judging her too harshly?,anyway all I knew was that she had to pay the fine or there would be consequences. My niece and I walked in silence from the car park to the Science Department,once inside I asked to speak with the Student Welfare Officer whom the fine had to be paid to,this young gentleman came to meet me,him and my niece knew each other and he immediately apologized to my niece for issuing the fine;was I hearing him right,why issue the fine and then apologize? He told me that the Department was otherwise very pleased with my niece ,but the house party she attended had got out of control and the fines were issued automatically by the University's Student Discipline Office,I seem to remember Jen getting a fine from them along time ago when she was a student,there was student newspaper which Jen was involved in that printed something very unpleasant about a staff member. I produced the fifty euro and was given a receipt,my niece stood there staring at me and then told the gentleman that she disagreed with the fine and she had no intention of paying it herself,personally ,he apologized again and then things took an alarming turn,he told me that my nieces's Professor would like a word with both my niece and I.We were asked to take a seat outside a room which had the Professor's name on it. The gentleman left and I immediately questioned my niece on what she had done to warrant the Professor wanting a word with us. She replied that it must be over the party. We waited,I was wondering was she going to be suspended,was there something she had not told me? My niece is a joker and sometimes says things in a joking way but others may get offended,I too am guilty of that,but my mind was racing. After about ten minutes this woman came out of the room and introduced herself as the Professor,the head of the Science Department, and invited my niece and I in.She greeted my niece warmly with a big smile on her face and even before we sat down she said "The Department is very proud of you". Recently in the past I had cause to wonder did I enter a parallel universe,this was another occasion;what was going on? The Professor shook my hand and smiled at me,I did notice that the Professor and I shared the same interest in ear rings,LOl. The Professor smiled at me and began to relate that earlier that morning she had received a letter from a research fund which is involved with scientific research in the university and that she was delighted to inform my niece, and I that my niece had been awarded a bursary to enter a research programme which would eventually lead to her Phd.My niece is very interested in Genetics,even some of the stuff she speaks about goes over my head,but this certainly was good news. We three chatted for awhile and I was very much relieved to hear that my niece doesn't party all the time,that her results are very good and that is why she and one other student have been awarded the bursary. The Professor was very happy and asked my niece had she given any thought to what area she would specialise in,my niece's response was true to form and made both her Professor and myself blush,my niece laughed and told her Professor that she would work on a way to clone her boyfriend so that she could have a threesome.Her response was met by a moment of silence before the Professor burst out laughing and said,"That's the spirit,you go for it,girl".Relief swept through my body.
So I am very proud of my niece.Her boyfriend brought her to a very expensive restaurant as a treat and both she and he are very pleased. As for Jen and I we are over the moon,no University fees to pay next year,the bursary covers it,YIPPPEEEEE!!!
Have a great week my friends and be safe.
Sir is never satisfied
Until my butts red raw
I'm never allowed to rub it better
He prefers me being sore
So I squirm and grit my teeth
As he lays on the cane once more
Through red wet eyes and throbbing ass
He does his caning duty
As he stands back with Swish and crack!
A well thrashed aching booty
Now I'm standing nose to corner with my hands upon my head
And sirs wondering if he couldn't make my butt a deeper shade of red...
In Georgia, after going through several prospects, I finally found a spanking partner who clicked. Our ideas about punishment were similar, and he knew how to punish me to get the message across. We met regularly. He would come to my apartment once a month or so. He was usually congenial and upbeat, but when it was time for me to answer to him he immediately became In Charge and No Nonsense. I would be made to pull down my pants and panties and lay across his lap, and he would spank my bare bottom with his big, rough hand until I was quivering. He made me feel Punished instead of just pained. Most of the people I meet now want to do all sorts of different things, try different implements and corner time. They want me to talk through my transgressions at length, to answer to them. Some want me to talk dirty. One man insisted on spanking my bare breasts with his hand and then a belt. None of them can make me feel like he did; none of them have given me what I need: a punishment that shows me what a bad girl I am and makes me feel sorry.
I wish I could find that again. I need it.
When my hubby is naked and across my lap, I love feeling his cock against my leg. I sometimes will stop spanking, reach between his legs and grab him and stroke him a few times...then stop and continue to spank him harder. It makes me giggle when I feel his hardness go mushy against my leg because of my spanking. I like to repeat this sequence throughout. For some reason, he doesnt like this.
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So was told I will be punished for doing stupid things and putting myself into bad places . Witch I don't feel I need to be. What do u all think u all know me. And do u think I should be punished and how bad do ya think?
1 drove car with suspended l
2 cussed. At my SIR in text
3 overly drank tequila and Gin don't remember what happened
4told 2 cops off god I hate cops....
5 lied to SIR ...
6 got 3 tickets.
That's a shot list
Want to sleep...
Wants to talk...
According to HIM
Such a brat...
Wanna go to bed
I whine & plead-
Over the couch
Swat after swat
Not fair-so mad
When I'm angry-
At least with me!!!
LISTEN TO ME
I can't believe-
I said that to HIM!!!
In trouble now...
Tears rain down
I stop crying
Sir walks away...
I fix my panties
He returns quickly-
A piece of wood held
I beg & cry feeling-
Reluctant & Compliant
Bent over AGAIN
Ass bared AGAIN
Crying hard AGAIN
Whacked many times
That mystery wood-
Panties pulled up by Sir
In our kitchen...
Because I got mad
My attitude returned
Sir surprised me-
Used a cooking spoon
It hurt a lot too!!!
Did I behave-obey?
So spanked more-
Still in the kitchen
A spatula this time...
My 4th spanking-
Ass very sore!!!
I pushed Sir away-
I can handle my spankings
Easily when so angry...
Anger takes over pain
Stay very painful-omg!!!
So during my 4th spanking
I tried to stop Sir-
Didn't work of course!!!
I am thankful Sir-
Spanked me there-
Usually I get on all 4s-
In our bed....
(Except during sex...)
Plus Sir's paddle-
"Stick of Pain"-
And Sir's cane-
Were too far away!!!
Such a dichotomy
Making things worse-
Harder on my butt!!!
Will I ever learn?
Can I learn to obey?
I hope not...hehehe!!!
A rainy day,
couldn’t walk the dog if I wanted to.
The rain is falling hard.
The long morning will slip away.
I know, because I’ve been here many times.
A lifetime passes in disconnected moments.
Remember first grade, or high school,
interminable, so they seemed, and yet,
in retrospect, each milestone marked
a compression of time, where each neatly wrapped module
could be stored into memory.
And thus, a lifetime passes, these disconnected moments.
I listen now to echoes, and dote on moments
that were, indeed, interminable,
like a spanking that seemed it would never end.
Time stands still, when you’re holding out against the pain,
and the bliss of that pulsing afterglow feels like an eternity.
How I long to go across her lap again,
to that place where time stands still
and the swats are as relentless as the rain.
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